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Five tips for staying out of the Friend Zone

If your relationships are always subject again in the direction of the Platonic rather than romantic, then, sorry to say, but it's probably because of something you do. Fortunately, it is possible to stay out of friend zone, and for good: It takes some courage and just the right amount of physical contact. A few tips:Ask him  her immediately: When is someone you might be interested to meet, the time factor in relation to the question of whether your relationship is to be platonic or romantic. For shy people, the natural tendency to slowly get to know the other person, even if your instant attraction. But that's how people get stuck in friend zone: you wait too long, to the point where a chemical potential or appeal (s) in a comfortable, platonic friendship develops.
                                 If you think you want to go on a date, they ask immediately. If you find that there is no chemistry on the day it's just a friendship from there to develop from. But turning the friendship into love is much more difficult.Do not be too subtle: It may be painfully obvious to you that you have a crush on someone in your group of friends, but believe me, there are good chances that he or she has no idea. People who often remain stuck in the friend area, are often very subtle flirtation - unfortunately, eye contact and a "good connection" not to make an exchange of flirtatious.Chances are that you are not strong enough (or not at all). If you love someone, let them know that you love them! It is worth risking potential embarrassment or rejection - you'll never see romantic attention you want, when you do not send signals.Do not be stupid / self-mockery: If you have something to learn here, either: Everyone wants the zany friends. You do not just want to sleep with them.I know it's hard when your natural inclination is to meet new people, act goofy and funny, so that you are popular for everyone. It works - for friendships. While humor attractive, is constantly denigrating jokes about themselves or act as a class clown do not think a man, "I have with this person, per bed sooner the better."Dingo is very nice, funny, is charming. To save these qualities, after landing a day. When you meet someone, instead of friendliness and charm.

Not be available: a surefire way to end up permanently in the area friend is to be fully available for the other person, with your emotions and time. Soon you will be whom he or she SMS when they are bored, or the invitation when they have no other plans. You'll feel like you are getting somewhere with this person and I think if you just platonic dating continues, one day, he or she will look across the table and suddenly realize they are in love with you.

Except that it rarely works that way.In truth, they are simply biding their time with a soft comfort yourself by thinking of the other person is something unattainable. If you love someone, give them the opportunity to, or not too one-on-one time to spend with them at all. They are forced to consider you in a romantic light, and if they reject you, believe me: There is so much better than strung along helplessly.Establish a physical intimacy: A good way is to thumb your way through a friend of the zone, slow to develop physical intimacy.Think of someone you love, the thought of touching them seem strange or impossible? Then you need to work on more comfortable with casual physical contact. Start small: Place your hand on his back, his head resting on his shoulder. It is not so strange for friends who have the level of physical relationship, does not it?If you put your head on his shoulder, and that person moves back and forth with an arm around her, and soon passed half an hour, and nobody moved, and the progress of things to From there ... Well, you're on your way out of the area for a good friend.